Sunday, February 5, 2017

I know she is mine!



I have been doing some thinking since Lucy's court date.
 I am so thankful that her name is now legally changed!
She knows who's daughter she is.
 I knew she was mine when I first laid eyes 
on her 2/1/2 years ago.
 I know that she was born to my daughter.
 Since our relationship started 
I have enjoyed the time with her.
 I have learned that she loves noodles,
 rice and all you can eat veggies.
 I have learned that she is truly a goofy girl who loves to make people laugh.   
It seems like I have always loved her. 
So when the question was asked if we would be willing to afford to Lucy all the rights and immunities of a child born to us, it caught me off guard. 
I took a moment to think and then I replied with a tearful but boisterous yes a hundred times yes. 
How can I not afford Lucy all my love and support. 
She is mine. 
I was over come with emotions as I thought about my other beauties and how deeply I love Kersten and Kelsee.
  It just makes sense to love their baby sister.
 I see the love in their eyes,
 I see happiness, 
I see the disappointment, 
I see the frustration, 
I see the willingness to grow together.
 I see it all.
I know that love can and
 does exists outside of bond of blood.
How else can I love my friends, my neighbors, my brother and sister in laws brought into the family thru marriage.
 When I look at us I see LOVE.
 I hope that everyone that looks at us sees love that is not defined by out ward appearances or inward genetics.