I have been doing some thinking since Lucy's court date.
I am so thankful that her name is now legally changed!
She knows who's daughter she is.
I knew she was mine when I first laid eyes
on her 2/1/2 years ago.
I know that she was born to my daughter.
Since our relationship started
I have enjoyed the time with her.
I have learned that she loves noodles,
rice and all you can eat veggies.
I have learned that she is truly a goofy girl who loves to make people laugh.
It seems like I have always loved her.
So when the question was asked if we would be willing to afford to Lucy all the rights and immunities of a child born to us, it caught me off guard.
I took a moment to think and then I replied with a tearful but boisterous yes a hundred times yes.
How can I not afford Lucy all my love and support.
She is mine.
I was over come with emotions as I thought about my other beauties and how deeply I love Kersten and Kelsee.
I see the love in their eyes,
I see happiness,
I see the disappointment,
I see the frustration,
I see the willingness to grow together.
I see it all.
I know that love can and
I know that love can and
does exists outside of bond of blood.
How else can I love my friends, my neighbors, my brother and sister in laws brought into the family thru marriage.
When I look at us I see LOVE.
I hope that everyone that looks at us sees love that is not defined by out ward appearances or inward genetics.